Usually that question is accompanied by an apathetic shrug, suggesting no one. But that question sums up what the nurse asked me at our first cancer treatment meeting.
“Do you have a support system?”
It was sobering and somewhat embarrassing. Who in my life cares what’s going on? To whom will this matter?
I quickly answered “My family. My church family. And several friends.” Imagining the circle of closeness starting at home, I had to take stock of people in my life who matter, who care.
I didn’t design it this way. Since becoming an independent adult I’ve tried my best to take care of myself and others and not ask for help. There have been times I’ve been in need after some set-backs but they were few and brief. I love paying my debts in full when I can.
But now people are offering help and prayers. I accept. I am overwhelmed by so many encouraging, supporting words from y’all. Thank you. It matters.
Lumpy Bob 
Yes Bob, WE CARE ! 🙏
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I care very much. I seem to be at a loss on how I can assist you. I think it is something we should discuss in more detail. Help with meals, or laundry maybe cleaning your truck. The yard? Company during the week? I have the time and the desire. Love you my brother!
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Oh yes we do care! And you my Dear Are a topic of conversation so many times among all of us who learned from you! I say, “Bob said…” it’s a thing with SWFL gardeners! Now, I am in Yuma and did go to garden club today, learned about making Yuma beautiful projects and got a date to prune roses next Monday. Thinking of you and all you do in your every day life that is so cool! I would come find you if I was close and give you a great big hug!
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❤️❤️❤️
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